Saturday February 4, 2012
Today, as my husband and I were playing around in the kitchen while making breakfast together, he turned to give me a hug. He's very touchy-feely in the morning, which he only does because he KNOWS it annoys me! He knows I like to be left alone...
As I gave in and melted into the hug, I started to cry.
He pulled away and took one look into my eyes and said, "Where are we going tonight and who can I call to babysit?"
So, late morning/early afternoon, my hubby went to visit his friend who had just come home from the hospital. I called him to let him know that all of the arrangements for the evening had been made. I just needed him to come home at some point in the evening...
He came home at 6:30 with our babysitters.
Woo Hoo!
He still had to shower and get ready (he had been gone for nearly 6 hours). I think I was showered and ready by 2:00 in great anticipation of his return... just a little adult interaction, please!!
So, we went to dinner and then we hooked up with 2 of my favorite friends and their husbands. We talked and belly laughed for a couple of hours! It was just what I needed!
The time flew by way too fast and before I knew it it was time to head home.
My husband took the babysitters home and we had a quiet evening thereafter.
I am incredibly thankful for a husband who can look into my sad eyes and just know I need a break. I'm thankful that he is willing to go with me - because he knows I do okay without him, but there's no one I'd rather have with me on a night out than him.
I am thankful for our babysitters who do a fantastic job with our girls.
And thankful for the much needed break - to clear my head, and reset the "Mommy Mind".
Monday, February 6, 2012
A Warm Body (30/366)
Friday February 3, 2012
It's been a long week.
My youngest daughter Ava is going through the "terrible two-almost three's" and it is exhausting!
Every other word out of her mouth is "NO!", and everything makes her cry, and she only has one pitch in her voice... WHINING.
Being a "single" parent is hard (again, when the mood is just right I'll explain that one someday), and some days are much harder than others.
At the end of the day, there's a little solace.
It's quiet.
It's dark.
And with the kids fast asleep, there's a companion - Daddy. Finally.
A warm body to snuggle on the couch, warm arms to snuggle as our eyes close to sleep.
I'm thankful for my husband, who keeps me safe... and warm.
It's been a long week.
My youngest daughter Ava is going through the "terrible two-almost three's" and it is exhausting!
Every other word out of her mouth is "NO!", and everything makes her cry, and she only has one pitch in her voice... WHINING.
Being a "single" parent is hard (again, when the mood is just right I'll explain that one someday), and some days are much harder than others.
At the end of the day, there's a little solace.
It's quiet.
It's dark.
And with the kids fast asleep, there's a companion - Daddy. Finally.
A warm body to snuggle on the couch, warm arms to snuggle as our eyes close to sleep.
I'm thankful for my husband, who keeps me safe... and warm.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
A Letter to My Friend
Dearest Friend,
I just wanted to say that seeing your name come up when you called was such an amazing surprise.
Sometimes, we don't realize how much we miss someone until we see them, or in this case, talk with them.
Words cannot express the value that you add to my life.
I cannot count the number of lessons I have learned from you.
I cherish every single laugh we've shared, and late (SUPER late) talks into the wee hours of the morning.
Remember T.G.I Friday's?
And Kahunaville? (Whoa)
And nights spent playing cards?
You introduced me to P!nk...
You let me into your life, your mind, which is something you don't do lightly, or with just anybody.
With you, there's no drama, no preconceived notions, no minced words.
You ooze confidence, whether or not you feel it.
You've taught me to be a sincere, honest friend (sometimes the truth hurts... or just plain 'ol sucks)!
You teach by example, and we all catch on quickly. Anyone around you is drawn to your awesome personality, your flair for life and the next adventure.
You are a beautiful, amazing person.
I wish we could talk more often, but it makes the times we do all the more special. There's so much more I could say, but you can read my mind sometimes, so I don't have to!
You're like a sister to me, irreplaceable, one of a kind.
I love you friend - and no amount of time or distance will ever change that.
I just wanted to say that seeing your name come up when you called was such an amazing surprise.
Sometimes, we don't realize how much we miss someone until we see them, or in this case, talk with them.
Words cannot express the value that you add to my life.
I cannot count the number of lessons I have learned from you.
I cherish every single laugh we've shared, and late (SUPER late) talks into the wee hours of the morning.
Remember T.G.I Friday's?
And Kahunaville? (Whoa)
And nights spent playing cards?
You introduced me to P!nk...
You let me into your life, your mind, which is something you don't do lightly, or with just anybody.
With you, there's no drama, no preconceived notions, no minced words.
You ooze confidence, whether or not you feel it.
You've taught me to be a sincere, honest friend (sometimes the truth hurts... or just plain 'ol sucks)!
You teach by example, and we all catch on quickly. Anyone around you is drawn to your awesome personality, your flair for life and the next adventure.
You are a beautiful, amazing person.
I wish we could talk more often, but it makes the times we do all the more special. There's so much more I could say, but you can read my mind sometimes, so I don't have to!
You're like a sister to me, irreplaceable, one of a kind.
I love you friend - and no amount of time or distance will ever change that.
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